What a Time to be Alone: The Slumflower's Guide to Why You Are Already Enough

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And while your indicators may vary from mine, knowing what they are — and what works best to alleviate them — will help you take care of yourself. Maybe you didn't get the love, acceptance, and validation you needed as a child to feel confident and worthy.If you decided to raise your cat as an indoor cat you will need to provide them for when you are out and the cat is left alone to help curb their boredome. Although you might think of adventures as something you do with others, going at it alone can help you get more out of the experience.

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She’ll show you that being alone is not just okay: it’s just about the best freaking thing that’s ever happened to you.

Set a reminder on your phone every couple of days that says ‘It’s time to finally choose yourself for once. It will be a period of reflection, relaxation, and remembering how far you’ve come within just a month of leaving a situation that could have dragged your life in a completely different direction. This may be because you're veryempathetic, or you're an empath,andyou can't really separate others' feelings from your own. Her blog The Slumflower – a name inspired by the streets of her native Peckham – addresses the subjects of female empowerment, self-confidence, self-love, black hair, fashion and self-exploration. If loneliness starts to creep in, try to take your mind off of it by doing something nice for yourself, like taking a relaxing bath or going for a walk through nature.

It promotesself-growth, as it can help you figure out who you are by giving you time to process your feelings. Getting into the habit of saying nice things about yourself prepares you to become so used to compliments that you aren’t dangerously swooned when others recognise your greatness. I may find myself complaining internally about being bored or procrastinating on creative projects I normally would have looked forward to doing. Trudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin specializing in Addictions and Mental Health.

Her blog The Slumflower - a name inspired by the streets of her native Peckham - addresses the subjects of female empowerment, self-confidence, self-love, black hair, fashion and self-exploration. I’ll let my child or partner know what was going on, and, if necessary, let them know that there’s something I need. Some cats also have separation issues, leading to anxiety if their owner often stays out of the house for long periods. After all, you wouldn't hesitate to contact a doctor if you had a persistent headache or other physical symptoms that interfered with your life, would you? Where the extrovert feeds onconstantly being around people, you don't need to be surrounded by a crowd to feel energized and satisfied.