Mothers Who Spank and Get Spanked

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My contribution really starts with my mate Adam casually relating the details of a fun birthday spanking given to his older sister. I still remember my total excitement at this news. Re: First choice or last resort with no alternative? -- Shannon to Ivana and Sarah, 03:49:17 09/29/23 Fri After the lecture we would be instructed to go over her knee and the spanking would commence, again not rushed or in a flurry, but in a series of even, measured swats that we were expected to count our loud. She usually spanked in groups of 12 swats and a typical spanking when I was in my teens could run to 36 or 48 swats – enough to turn my bottom a deep shade of red.

Disclaimer: This post is the perspective of one local parent, however, the American Academy of Pediatrics does not endorse spanking as a form of punishment. You can read their position statement HERE. Katherine's Attitude Adjustment: 37-year-old Katherine has been in something of a funk every since her husband left her for a younger woman. Her daughter, Isobel, is fed up with her attitude and enlists the help of Miss Thomas, a surrogate disciplinarian, whose methods typically result in very sore bottoms for her clients.I never want to punish my child and have them wondering why. This eliminates the effectiveness of the discipline completely. Continuing with the same example, I would excuse my child to their room and have them wait for me. I will give them a moment, and then meet them in their room and ask, “What did you do wrong?” Of course, a two-year-old will not be able to answer as well as a four or five-year-old can, so you could say something along the lines of, “Did you run in the kitchen after Mommy asked you not to?” This helps them make the connection between their behavior and the consequence. I’m going to give you a taster of each of my little helpers – three with the cane, three with the slipper and three with the board.”“You can’t make me!” I protested, but with that she called Doreen into the room. Though spankings were less in fashion during my childhood, my parents were definitely firm believers in their effectiveness and all four of us were spanked into our early to mid-teens. Though the spankings were both uncomfortable and embarrassing, the upside was that once it was over, it was over and it was very rare that there were groundings or other restrictions attached to them.

Re: What does your brush, implement look like, where is it kept -- naughty boy, 19:14:27 08/27/23 Sun Re: Legs together or separated, how do you get them over? -- Laura (Matt's mom), 13:51:15 09/04/23 Mon A lawyer, in charge of his firm's dress code, uses his position to administer corporal punishment. (2,360 words.) Re: Have you still been spanked, when you gave your first spanking? -- Sarah, 23:17:31 09/27/23 Wed

I was super-pumped by this news. I asked Adam if he had been spanked and he replied no, but his parents had warned him to be ‘afraid, very afraid’ on his next birthday! In the end, I couldn’t concentrate on our game – I was so messed up in my head. Before we moved to a new level in the game, I took a keyboard break and went for a drink. The following true story took place in the summer of 1984, when I was nine years old. My parents had divorced two years earlier. Since then, I had lived with my mom in New England, and had spent four weeks every summer with my dad at his home in Georgia. Well, that didn’t sound good. I complied, thinking she was giving herself time to calm down. As I worked through my assignments, I actually found myself settling down. I didn’t exactly forget that I was in big trouble, but I pushed the thought aside.

I’ve already told you how I got paddled for passing notes in class – this is the story about what happened when I got home that day, with an already sore bottom. Then the brush began to come down, right on my utterly too-thin-to-help panties, and I began to scream. For the first time in my life, I got a true bottom tanning. The brush continued to talk well past the point that I myself could even verbalise. My mom was spanking me well past the point of crying; she was going for hysterical. She was trying to make sure I never sat comfortably again, or so it seemed at the time. The Right Incentive: Singled out because of unsatisfactory homework, Julia and her mother Rebecca along with several others, attend a Parents' Open Meeting at school. When it becomes clear that the girls' mothers are not providing the necessary discipline at home, the Headmistress decides to cane them instead. Following a painful bare bottomed caning for Rebecca, she can't wait to get her daughter Julia home for a long, hard, overdue spanking. Lacey: When Lacey entered college she stayed with her Aunt Mandy who, unlike her brother, believed in sound over the knee spankings, even for college girls, when earned. Soon Lacey’s friend Carol joins her, panties down, over her knee, then Carol’s mother becomes both spanker and spankee and Carol’s boyfriend spanks all 4 women Spanking is not fun for me, I get no enjoyment from it, I get no sense of power, no sense of “victory.” But I do feel it is necessary at times. I believe I have a daughter who is respectful, kind, empathetic, loving, and well behaved because the option of spanking is in the “bag of discipline” techniques. She is also those things because I keep the value of nurturing just as much as the value of discipline. When any discipline occurs whether it be spanking or otherwise, shortly afterward, I always talk to my daughter and clearly explain why the discipline occurred and that I love her. In fact, when writing this post I decided to nonchalantly interview my 5-year-old daughter on the topic. Here are her responses:I want to make sure that my children are warned ahead of time what is expected of them and how I will respond in a case of disobedience. For example, my two-year-old has been asked not to run in the kitchen because it is unsafe. On the first occurrence, I would say to him, preferably at eye-level so that I know he is hearing me, “Please do not run in the kitchen because it is not a safe place for running.” Then, let him continue on with his day. Finally, after what felt like hours, she pushed me off her lap. I grabbed my bottom and tried to rub the fire away. “You are not too old for a spanking, Samantha, and I hope you remember that – because this can be done again, and worse.” She was so cool as she got me ready for my spanking, like an expert, as if she did it every day! “I heard her say: You are such a naughty boy, being cheeky like that to Adam’s mum!” As she continued to scold me, she eased my pyjama bottoms down to expose my bare bum. I hadn’t said a word by this point – in truth, I was totally speechless. I hadn’t been naughty at all. Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness -- naughty boy, 07:28:44 08/07/23 Mon

Now as a parent myself, I never really questioned whether or not I would spank my daughter. Just as I never really questioned whether I would discipline my daughter. To me, spanking fell into the category of healthy discipline.

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I saw all of my brothers and sisters get it from time to time, and a few of mine were witnessed by them – including my last one, a hairbrush spanking on my bare behind when I was past 16. But that is a story for another time. I don’t blush, but she must have noticed something in my reaction. I just stood there for a second. I remember feeling sort of in awe of her – it was a strange feeling. On the first day of my visit, we all hit it off great. Kate was very nice to me, and Denise and Kristie were a lot of fun to play with. Moreover, I thought Kate very pretty, and developed a crush on her almost immediately. I asked Mum if she really was going to spank me every night for a week. She pulled a funny face, placed her hands on her hips and said thoughtfully: “Hmm – that’s not a bad idea!” Sadly, she didn’t of course. Now hear me clearly, I am not advocating in any way, shape, or form for hurting your children for the sheer purpose of hurting them. I am not giving the okay to beat your kids. There is a massive difference between spanking done properly and abuse.