My First Adult Spanking

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Its up to you on how low you want to bare your sub's layers to. If you want to protect your submissive's modesty, you can spank bare while covering just below their bottom with their underwear or pants. This means you cannot strike the sit spots as well, nor the tops of the thighs at all. Please don’t ask me to remove any of my clothing as there will be NO nudity on my part. Don’t ask for permission to touch me or lift up my skirt or uncross my legs – it’s just not my thing and it won’t happen. I do not want any topping from the bottom. I am a disciplinarian, if you are looking for sex play, I am not for you. Soft limits are generally meant to be pressed forward- so it's up to the dominant and submissive to discuss these sorts of things and decide what's best in regards to moving forward with these limits.

I do NOT have a dungeon, whipping benches, St Andrew’s crosses, bondage equipment or the other items associated with dominatrix. The journey to the end of the day was like some heroic trek in a fantasy novel. Long and arduous. The lunch time collection of the ‘death sentence’ sent a cold shiver to her tummy. The words left the slip and ran amok in her brain. There before her the words threatened her bottom.

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The biggest reasons I hear for baring butts is that it makes the spanking sting more, and it's more embarrassing for the spankee. Indeed, it’s not hard to see how people who were spanked as children (or physically abused in at any point in life) may cringe at spanking during sex. For lots of us, hitting is scary, angry, and unpredictable. Trust Your Spanker A formidable no nonsense women. Her standing in the community was the fuel that drove her on. At Christmas she probably had to do without, to provide a lovely Christmas for her daughter. She was the woman you went to to get something done, Tombolas, Raffles, Carol Concerts to name a few. In short, she was a very much loved and respected member of the village community. Mildred was walking by, the strains of the spanking symphony drifted through the window turning into a cocophony of sound, hard whups! and long, long howls of pain! She nodded satisfactorily. “Good old Mummy, keeping up the standards, that’ll teach her!”

While we tend to think of spanking as an “outdated” practice, it’s still an incredibly common form of discipline used among parents and even in schools — despite the research linking the practice to negative results. There are only 62 countries — not including the United States — with a ban on corporal punishment, Cuartas points out. Additionally, nearly one-third of parents in the United States report spanking their children every week, often to detrimental effects and implications. She continued, “Go up to our room and assume the position. I’ll be in to deal with you in a moment.” I tried to argue but got that ‘look’ she gives right before adding on additional swats to the END of the spanking. I decided taking what was already coming was the better option. My own spanking experience is limited. Sure, I’ve tenderised a steak with a rolling pin. I’ve even administered training to an unruly puppy. But channelling a 1950s headmaster is not a forte of mine. People could also learn from sex parties, classes at sex shops, online tutorials, or books. Discussing consent

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Spanking therapy uses spanking as a form of release. People may choose to take part in spanking therapy to release stress and responsibility, explore power roles, or work through negative emotions or trauma. However, there is limited scientific research on spanking therapy and its effectiveness. Power play: People may find it sexually arousing to play with power roles, such as becoming dominant or submissive. Others may also find it freeing to release responsibility and power in a controlled environment.

I'll put it like this- spanking over a thong isn't for the dominant, it's for the submissive. Functionally, it is identical to baring. The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me when I was in school, was the day my teacher, Mrs. Rider, paddled me. I was 14 years old and…

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Hard limits: Your hard limits are activities that are absolutely off-limits and should be communicated to your partner prior to play. Toying with power dynamics can be as alluring as it is discomforting. When it comes to spanking and gender-roles, baggage about power can enter the bedroom on an express train. Although love taps are certainly not exclusively man-on-woman behavior, anecdotally, guys spanking gals is one of the more common manifestations. Some dudes relish lady-swatting, which makes them feel powerful or manly. Roche, for instance, says he loves the “power aspect.” But other dudes are justifiably freaked out by such a request. Men are, after all, taught never to hit women. Each card in the box walks you through an experience step by step, and it lists which products from the kit you should be using for that particular game or activity. For example, when you play our Simon-says-inspired game, Bottom Says, the spankee leads the spanking and you can use any of the implements (like the mini ruler or the stinger paddle) as long as the “Bottom Says.”

If you're leaning towards yes, then the best way to satisfy your curiosity is to try it out (with your boyfriend's consent, of course, which we'll get to in a moment). Keep in mind that trying spanking once doesn't mean you're agreeing to be spanked every time you have sex. If you try it and you don't like it, you can stop. You might t A husband is suddenly inspired to spank his wife just before she goes to work each morning. (1,955 words.) I believe I am similar to many other disciplinarians in my likes and dislikes. We all like the basic courtesies in life, so please arrive at the session showered, well-groomed and with pleasant but not excessive after shave or cologne. Ensure your clothes are clean without dirty collars and please don’t wear greying undergarments. Soft limits: These are limits that are okay to push after discussion, and carful understanding. For instance, if the soft limit is using a wooden paddle, maybe we discuss purchasing one, and start by either using it over jeans, or by draping a towel overtop the submissive's bottom. Alternatively, if the submissive is okay with pressing these boundaries, perhaphs the dominant will use a paddle without having specifically asked to during a session because things are ramping up appropriately. A good way to ensure consent in this scenario would be to ask if the stop light is still "green" after announcing the intention to use the paddle.

The pain did not leave, it was still growing. Even in the dark of night she could feel the heat on her hand. And lying on her tummy, stroking her poor bottom, she fell asleep. People can consult a trained spanking therapist for a session or learn how to safely carry out spanking therapy themselves with a partner.