Crossdreaming: A Femboy’s Dreams Come True? (Femboy to Gorgeous Girl)

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Secretly, however, I believe that most ‘prosthetic crossdressers’ (ugh, what an ugly name for them!) actually believe the ‘natural crossdressers’ are right. Ideally, they would love to get rid of the prosthetics and go natural — but still be able to go for a passable illusion.

Richard Dawkins, Steven Pinker and Ray Blanchard all belong to what I would call a school of traditional gender role thinking masquerading as science based facts.I'm thankful to finally have a name attached to this conditon and know that there are others, but I still feel sometimes so confused and conflicted. I'm sure that in this community my story and my questions are common. All of this does not mean that Tina is necessarily wrong about herself having Asperger. She reports more than one symptom fitting the diagnosis, and there is no reason male to female crossdreamers should be excluded from this condition. Let's not beat about the bush: This Catch 22 situation is hell, and I know, because I have been there. Why? Well, as said, the crossdreamer theory explains that as a form of easing the urges. It’s a coping mechanism: when a crossdreamer cannot express themselves in their preferred way (say, by crossdressing), then, as a form of escapism, they create art. As you can imagine, this is not an easy step to take, and, at that stage, one would definitely classify that crossdreaming person as much more than ‘merely a crossdresser’. It means that they want to start reshaping their physical bodies to become aligned to their image as women. But, of course, that has consequences which are irreversible — to a degree.

I don't know if I wanted to post this mail as comment in your blog or to send you a mail. But I decided to mail you first. Do you like looking at yourself in the mirror and deciding whether the suit is a good fit? An individual with serious gender dysphoria would loathe every second of this experience because of what it represents.

Take away the transition, however, and being transgender/dyspohoric is nothing more than a giant pain in the ass… and starts looking like a mental illness. However, ‘crossdreaming’ is a more encompassing theory, that provides a common explanation for all those types, and that’s what makes it so appealing to me. It merely postulates that, at birth, crossdreamers have acquired a mindset that makes their self-image as females incredibly arousing and sexually stimulating. The various classes or types of crossdreamers are merely expressions of that mindset. It explains so-called ‘true transexuals’ — where the only possibly expression of the mindset, since birth, is to switch their bodies to the correct gender, the one that is in their minds — but also why so many crossdreamers don’t even need to crossdress to express themselves.