Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns and Come Home to Yourself

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Speaking with your actions gets easier when you start to see the transformative effect that it has. When you speak with your actions, you put an immediate end to your run as the ambassador of crazy town. Why? Because you give people absolutely no words to mince, twist, and use against you down the line. You remain on your white horse instead of being reactionary and creating drama. Do not triggered and explanatory. Get silent and disappear . As you attempt to escape, however, the gods within you and your party will surface, angry at your failure and calling you their worst mistake. At this point, you are given the option to "give yourself" to your god, or refuse. If you choose to "give yourself", your god will rip out your source and your character will instantly die, but combat will still be initiated with the rest of your party members. If you refuse, they will angrily proclaim they made you, and combat will still begin anyway. In either case, you will have to fight your clones, so defeat them all for 55,800XP each. Once the last clone remains, a Source Titan will spawn from the last clone, and you will have to fight it. All enemies have around 4000 combined HP+PA+MA each. Defeating the Titan grants an amazing 125,550XP (the 55,800XP is replaced with this amount). Don't forget to loot the Source Titan after it's dead for some really nice loot. If a man feels ATTRACTION for a woman, on a deep emotional level BEYOND PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, then nothing else really matters: You know that your relationship status does not define your worth and that the freedom to exist, just as you are, allows you to show up as your most authentic self.

In your first week, you’ll uncover what’s behind your relationship patterns, your shadows and your boundaries so you know the exact steps necessary to have the relationship you truly desire. This first week is vital to laying a foundation of self-love. After you talk to the Eternal Arbiter, you will be teleported to the Arena of the One, along with your former companions, now Sworn to the God-King. You are instructed to get to the end faster than the others, but obviously, your former companions will try to kill you and stop you from getting past. If Alexandar is still alive, he will be here as well, and turn on you. With a high Persuasion however he can be convinced to set aside his ambition to become Divine and support you instead. This will also award you the Favoured Son achievement. If that doesn't work the simplest solution here is to kill them all, but you will not be able to loot your former companions' bodies. You will be granted no XP for killing any of them as well, but since they are weak, it is best to finish them all then walk towards the end.However I do find value that the author speaks candidly and with candor about her experiences. How she overcame these trauma is something she did not discussed in the book. Whether it’s with friends or in romantic relationships, I always have this post-relationship fantasy of being The One That Got Away after a breakup. Always. And while Fantasyland is a fun place to reside (if you don’t mind being delusional), a few years ago I decided to acquaint myself with reality. In the process, I realized that I was never The One That Got Away. Just give the content a try and you’ll see why so many women have raved about how this program has changed their lives. It can change yours too. I Googled “Love Map” and found references to Gottman’s work but those were all love maps for couples. Anyway, I don’t feel like I need to redo this but some additional instruction about what the goal is here prior to all the “have fun with it” would have been helpful for me.

You’ve been hurt, abandoned, lied to or betrayed: And you want to learn how to spot red flags and set healthy boundaries from the start. After the fight, use Malady's beacon to escape. Be very careful not to step on the lava surfaces - they will instantly kill any member if stepped upon! Only one member needs to use the beacon, and a cutscene will play with Malady saving the entire party from certain death. After being rescued, you will be granted 69,750XP, although this XP reward is not shown in the combat log due to the transition into Act IV, wiping your log clean. This action gives the Machines an opportunity to destroy Smith through direct access to him via the new Neo-Smith clone, a chance the Deus Ex Machina does not hesitate to take by sending a power surge through Neo's body that destroys the Neo-Smith clone as well as all the other Smith clones, including the Oracle clone. Recognizing when you’re triggered and committing to emotional intelligence (staying on your white horse and in a state of non-reactivity).

In these two video sessions, you’ll have an opportunity to explore what your core values are and how to set boundaries that will help you create healthy, Conscious and connected relationships.

Feel your feelings and feel your pain. It will eventually pass. If you remain in a state of avoidance, the pain will fester and spread like cancer. The pain contraction will then be so intense, it will make you say and do things at the expense of your dignity. YOU. Here’s what you need to know… The # 1 reason that you will be remembered as “the crazy psycho ex” instead of “The One That Got Away,” always boils down to the inability to speak with your actions. I wish that I could advise, but I have too much to say to type it all out not enough hands to type or hours in the day. I would also need more details. This is why I cannot give specific advice/answers in the comments. And here enters the most unexpected man into my life. He is not my “type” at all! A little out of my age range, and truthfully I would’ve swiped left on him in an app, he is a complete 180 from all the previous toxic relationships. An extraordinary gift that illuminates the path to wholehearted self-acceptance ... Sheleana is a wise woman, a compassionate and clear-eyed guide, a visionary, and a teacher in the true sense of the word. I'd follow her up any mountain. Harriet Lerner, New York Times bestselling author of The Dance of Anger and Why Won’t You Apologize?

The Arena of the One is a Questin Divinity: Original Sin II. Upon entering the Arena of the One, you are finally close to ascension...to Divinity. Will you be able to reclaim your rightful place and ascend as a Divine? As you move forward though, there will be 2 Eternal Sentinels that will try to stop you. Defeat them both, and you will receive 27,900XP per kill. Move towards the Wellspring and a cutscene will play. Apparently, Dallis has followed you, calling you predictable. She will then use the Aetheran rod to destroy the Wellspring, purging it of any powers that lay within. Her actions have effectively ruined your grand plans for ascension, and left the arena in ruins. You are now tasked with escaping the arena before it is too late. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years three days ago. After being given innumerable silent treatments, sh*t tests and ignoring me when my grandmother was diagnosed with a neurodegenerative illness, he told me he is donating his 50 year old sperm so a single female friend could have a baby. He expected me to stay with him. I asked him if he was just going to donate and live his life or if this child is going to be a presence in his life. He couldn't tell me, so I shut it all down. I simply can not do this anymore. I can't be with him knowing another woman is having his baby and people are calling me selfish for this. Why is he allowed to do what he feels is right for him, but I am not? We want to have “talks” and explain to people how they hurt us and why what they did was wrong. The thing is, if these people were capable of respect in the first place, you wouldn’t be reading this right now. So, what’s the point of explaining to someone, that has consistently proven to you that they don’t understand respect, how they were disrespectful? It’s not your job to be an educational resource center for grown adults. Be one for YOURSELF and get away from the toxicity. Your life is the sum of a remainder of an unbalanced equation inherent to the programming of the Matrix. You are the eventuality of an anomaly, which despite my sincerest efforts I have been unable to eliminate from what is otherwise a harmony of mathematical precision. ”

I definitely recommend everyone to read this book because it bring you to a place of self discovery, self awareness and healing patterns you may not know you have. I too have spent lots of time and money seeing therapists and coaches, reading-self help books, taking courses, and journaling myself to death over the years. Explore 3 short videos that introduce you to the foundations of Conscious Relationship, Shadow Work and Boundaries, accompanied by a simple yet powerful journaling process for each lesson. Note: Sometimes, there is a bug where you will not receive 55,800XP for killing a clone. If this happens, you will have to reload and kill them again or you will forfeit the XP.You see the areas where you may have been settling, and you’re ready to step totally into the life you want. You’re Becoming the One.