How to share your wife with other men without destroying your marriage: The open-minded adult’s guide to successful cuckolding

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But there was also a different side to all this. While my husband was incredibly supportive and encouraging and our sex life only improved throughout all of this, I still had my doubts and my insecurities.

This is so apparent that once you and your partner share such a fantasy, you never let each other go. 2. Create an open channel of communicationHis confidence and muscular body were all the convincing I needed to accept his offer, and I did not regret it when I was moaning in ecstasy in his room a few hours later. It wasn’t long before the initial apprehension melted away. The wine (on top of the previous drinks) made me mellow, and I was getting giggly and touchy-feely with the guy. He didn’t mind one bit, and my husband was more than happy to let me crawl into the guy’s lap and finally kiss him. This Was The Best Sex Of My Life The first major thing to know about rape fantasies is that they usually aren’t about actually nonconsensual sex. “Most people who have these fantasies are imagining a scenario in which someone is pretending to resist sex but truly wants to have it, which is why some refer to these fantasies as [depicting] ‘consensual nonconsent,’ ” Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life, tells SELF. Not only that, but we were also really horny for each other. Our hookup infused energy into our sex life, something new and different than what we’ve had so far, and we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. I was kinkier than ever before, and my husband reveled in it. Ever find yourself visualizing steamy scenarios to get yourself turned on? You're far from the only one. Sexual fantasies are very common and very normal. "All forms of fantasy, kinky or otherwise, are a healthy part of sexuality," sex expert Ava Cadell, Ph.D., tells SELF.

It may sound harsh, but some men use this as an excuse to get out of the mess they have created by cheating on their wives. Correcting bad habits in our partner a relationship might be daunting, as we don’t want to come off as rude or confrontational all the time. However, despite our silence or tolerance, we are not doing either us or our partner any good, as bitterness, some of these bad habits of our partner leaves us will have latent negative effect in our interaction with them. No doubt that as time goes on, and as the pressure builds, the relationship will be closing in on its grave. Looking beyond the “sex had by a partner outside a legal marriage is a taboo”, we will discover that the level of socialization created when a husband shares her wife with another man cannot be realized in the regular traditional marriage because, in the wife sharing relationship, the partners get to learn real time from one another. Maybe for instance where the sexually pursuing partner has always been complaining about not been satisfied, (I will like to make the sexually pursuing partner for the sake of this illustration the husband) and this issue to the wife, is beyond her control. However, let’s say during one of the sessions of the wife sharing tingy! The wife was being rammed from behind, and the third-party partner seems to be so into her to the extent that it was obvious the synchronization between the two is out of this world.Then, in this situation, the husband can get to ask questions from the two parties to know what he has been missing.There and then, the husband can solve whatever problem it is after its ascertaining. 2. Bad habit correction Before I veer further into the topic, there are a few things I want to advert your mind to, and they are as follows: most people usually take wife-sharing to mean the same thing as wife-swapping, but this is totally wrong. What Is Wife Sharing & The Psychology Behind It? Christopher Ryan, author Terry Gould, and researchers Baker and Bellis corroborated this fact by saying that there is a biological reaction happening that affects a male sexual drive after watching their wife with another man. To them, the husband becomes excited biologically to have longer, and more breath-taken and fun-filled sex subsequently with their wife.Since both partners talk about it, and agree to the solution, it becomes apparent that there is no need to conceal anything from your partner. We can't always have what we want in life. My ex-boyfriend is sorry he lost me. And, I thought he was my soul mate, too. But, I realized that having endless *** and knowing he was always cheating on me just wasn't the way I wanted to live. Depending on your levels of comfort and emotional maturity, it may or may not be a good idea to wife share with the same couple more than once. Humans are made of different stuff, and as such we can never be the same. This cuts across our reasoning, the perception of things around us, and the extent of our tolerance. And this has further gone to the fact that we humans are not designed by our creator to be perfect. we will always have differences as long as we associate with others.

Nope! It was a hired wedding photographer that day (we were involved in the actual wedding)... never saw a guy use that camera all day before.... props to him! It was cool he let us play with it haha. But my husband was there, and with his help, I took this massive step, actually communicating my fantasies to a person who was interested in making them happen for me.Of course, having the kind of sex most people only get to fantasise about didn’t hurt either. Friday After a morning of topless photos on the beach, we invited a friend to our room for a threesome. She had suggestively asked to help celebrate my husband’s birthday, and he was more than happy to unwrap this gift. We celebrated his birthday right away with a leg-shakingly good romp in bed. At this point, all the swingers knew it was his special day, and both of us were turned on just by the thought of what could happen.