DISCIPLINE DESIRED (Domestic Discipline Book 1)

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Domestic discipline is also not solely practiced where the husband, or male in the relationship, is the HOH and the wife, or woman in the relationship, is the submissive partner. There are many different dynamics, including one in which the woman is the HOH (referred to as female-led relationships, or FLRs) and one in which both parties take on the role of HOH and submissive partner simultaneously to hold each other accountable (this is usually referred to as The Spencer Plan, or Cooperative Domestic Discipline dynamic). Then not hide anything from your partner or tell a lie because it can ruin your marriage life. Your partners will take it as a big mistake of yours. So before doing anything, think twice or thrice. Of course, it’s not just about that. Even in a domestic discipline relationship, sensual spanking has its place and can live alongside disciplinary spankings. How To Discipline Your Husband? Domestic Discipline, the romance novella, is a two-story fiction anthology about two couples who practice domestic discipline. Wife on the Lam, is light and humorous, while Rahm’s Way is more intense and delves deeper into domination and submission. There is no right or wrong way to practice domestic discipline, and the two stories show two different DD relationships.

I share everything, including personal matters, with my wife. Always avoid the big words like “divorce” or “I will change my partner.” There are many myths and misconceptions surrounding Christian Domestic Discipline. One of the most familiar is that it’s a form of abuse. However, proponents of CDD argue that it’s not about inflicting pain but rather about reinforcing the importance of submission and obedience in a loving and controlled manner. In general, yes. Did she wish she could avoid those consequences, hell, yes! “I guess,” she muttered mutinously. She glanced at his face. He arched his eyebrows. Don’t make it worse for yourself. “I mean, yes, Rahm,” she amended in a more respectful tone. For us, personally, we have chosen to do domestic discipline because it feels very natural to us. We also practice the lifestyle because it has allowed us to reduce the amount of arguments we have, and provides a “means to an end” when arguments do occur. It also has helped me (Chelsea), personally, by making me procrastinate less, curse less, be more respectful, drive more safely, and more. The changes it has made in me as a person are something that I’m truly grateful for, and the changes I’ve watched the lifestyle do for my husband, such as made him a stronger leader, made him more protective, made him more confident, and made our family run so much smoother have also been 100% worth it.While Christian Domestic Discipline is controversial, many couples practice it and swear by its benefits. One such couple is Sarah and Mark, who have been married for ten years and now have two kids. ADDS appreciates and supports what the learning group is trying to do and also believes the more information available, the better the decision making process can be for everyone researching Domestic Discipline as a respectful relationship choice. Or possible relationship choice. As noted above and stated for many years, DD is not for everyone.

Finally, some people believe that CDD is a way for men to exert control over their wives. While there may be some examples where this is the case, proponents of CDD argue that it’s about mutual respect and love and that both partners benefit from the practice. Conclusion So, why would a person want domestic discipline? Before beginning the lifestyle my assumption was that people were drawn to this because they wanted their partner to take charge, to take control, and to lead their family. This is one reason why the book (and soon-to-be movie) Fifty Shades of Grey is so popular. It features a man taking charge, and while the book falls drastically more on the BDSM side than anything else, it does offer similarities such as a dominant man, a submissive woman, structure, rules and consequences, which are all things that domestic discipline sets out to provide as well. Why would someone submit to DD? Reasons can be as varied as the individuals involved, but generally the Taken-in-Hand likes to held accountable for his/her actions and feels secure having the oversight of a dominant partner. Another couple, Rachel and David, have been practicing CDD for five years. Rachel says that the discipline has helped her overcome personal struggles and become a better wife and mother. “I used to struggle with anger and impatience, but since we started practicing CDD, I’ve learned to control my emotions and focus on being a more loving and supportive partner,” she says. Lisa called them in. I found two very young but disturbed persons seeking help. As I had initial information about them, I directly asked them about the problem they were going through. The lady was a bit nervous, and the man was aggressive. I requested Lisa give them water and asked them to be comfortable. In the meantime, I took some time to think. Both of them were quiet. So, I started. We had a long discussion. Here I am sharing what the couple shared with me. Dear readers, please try to put your feet in their shoes when reading the couple’s story. Their Story and My WordsSo in this situation, her husband should discipline his wife by showing love and affection. It requires a good foundation of respect, patience, and understanding. Tell us a little bit about yourselves. How old you are, how long you’ve been married (or, in a relationship), how you heard about domestic discipline, what made you start practicing, etc? All these verses justify that the husband can choose physical punishment or any form of punishment, including spanking. Conversely, this weird interpretation misses that nowhere in the scripture does the Lord ever command or even allow for the physical punishment of wives by husbands. Slight physical punishment is reserved for children to safeguard them from their foolishness. On the other hand, Wives are mature enough to understand the Biblical rules and maintain household discipline. Instead, to maintain household discipline, a couple should understand each other harmoniously and run the family. Unfortunately her father has little trust in his daughter's supposed reformation, especially after her behavior at her come-out ball when he sees the men she's chosen to attract - and her tactics for doing so. Sure that Eleanor is on the way towards ruining her reputation as well as the family's, especially if she manages to snare a man without the gumption to combat her willful ways, her father marries her off to the overbearing and far-to-attractive Lord Hyde within the first week of her Season.

Eventually, we can understand this Building a domestic discipline relationship is like building a house, so we should keep the house calm and peaceful. Instead of spanking them, make them understand wrong and right. Don’t show anger if your children or wife makes any mistake, and it’s not only how you can teach the right thing. You can do it in other ways. So stop spanking your children’s wives after a few moments. When Wesley Spencer, Earl of Spencer, arrives in Bath, his first encounter with his new ward is out in the street, when she's supposed to be in his mother's home, where she's indecently dressed (to his mind) and obviously rushing to get home. His mother's letters had prepared him for a hoyden, what they hadn't prepared him for was the astonishingly beautiful and sensual young woman who surprised every one of his expectations once he'd disciplined her. It becomes hazardous, and it impacts the other members of the family. Instead of spanking them, you can try to know the reason behind their fault. You can make them understand which is good for them and which things not to do. Finally, it’s important to seek resources and support from other couples practicing CDD. There are multiple online communities and forums where couples can connect and share their experiences. Resources for those interested in exploring Christian Domestic DisciplineCritics also argue that the practice can be physically and emotionally abusive. They point out that the power dynamic in a CDD relationship is heavily skewed towards the husband, which can lead to emotional and psychological abuse. Edwin Villiers, Lord Hyde and only child of the Earl of Clarendon, didn't realize that women were sometimes discipline with the birch until the day he was invited by his friend Hugh Stanley, Viscount Petersham and son of the Earl of Harrington, to witness the disciplining of Hugh's sister Eleanor. While he'd known Eleanor as a young girl, she had grown up to a beautiful but spoiled young woman who, even at the age of 18, wasn't quite ready to make her debut. After being overly indulged by her mother for years, her father Lord Harrington has realized that he must take her in hand or risk her ruining the family's reputation with her willful ways once she's out in Society.