The Dominant Wife Rulebook

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Sure, you might want to roleplay a situation where he’s forcing her to do what he wants, but it’s still just that — a roleplay scene. Why did you feel the FLR dynamic would be best for your relationship, as opposed to the other dynamics? Your safe word can be anything, but it should be something that is unlikely to be spoken accidentally during sex, like ‘cabbage’ or ‘pineapple.’ I want him to learn a lesson. I want to make sure he will never cheat on me again. If he does cheat on me or i Suspect he does he will have to deal with me and Oh he has no idea how humiliated he will be. I also want you to add another trigger word. "nylon toes". Can you make it where if he sees a women's bare or nylon toes and this trigger word is given he will drop his pants start to be immediately turned on but unable to come unless given permission? But also unable to stop jerking unless commanded? The reason it’s especially important when it comes to dominance is that your sub’s role may involve them shouting ‘no’ and acting like they have no control when, in reality, they’re enjoying it. You need a way to know if at any point they really want to stop; when ‘no’ actually means ‘no.’

Now that you understand the basics, let’s get into the meat of this guide. Here are 11 essential tips on being a Dom: 1. Establish a Safe WordThe sub also has to be able to trust that you’ll respect those boundaries, and it takes time to build up that trust. I wouldn’t recommend trying to ‘dominate’ someone you haven’t already built up that trust with and definitely don’t assume that every woman will be into it. How to Be a Dom Sarah looked at her "sheesh sis remind me never to get on your bad side". If you want I can. But I will have to leave in two days and I don't know when Ill be able to fly out here again if you change your mind. No problem Carol said I wont use these triggers unless he disserves it. So, we interviewed a wonderful couple, Kathy and Gary, who have chosen the FLR style of domestic discipline for their relationship. Their interview is below. We have not changed, manipulated, or edited their answers in any way, shape, form, or fashion. We did, however, add the links where appropriate. Enjoy!

A good two to three hours of erection is entirely feasible and I love to see that. Occasionally I give her Viagra when I want to keep it harder for longer or if I want to play more seriously. I never did like her very much she seemed kind of creepy when she looked at people as if the people she was looking at were a hamster in a maze and not really a person to interact with.

I was 32 years old when I began posting my story, a professional consultant living in the UK; well-paid, hard working, but with enough free time to enjoy a very active and enjoyable social life. I'd been married for a little over nine years to Martin, a successful businessman whose attributes would make me the envy of many women - he’s intelligent, witty, kind, and very competent at almost anything he turns his hand to. I'll state quite openly that I love him dearly. The accelerometer technology is adopted and adapted from commercial applications where a shipper, for example, wants to know exactly where their product is at all times, if it has moved from a designated spot, if it has been bumped, tilted, if it is in motion or stationary, etc. You get the idea? There is no downside. Stopping my sissy husband Alice from ever ejaculating again means she gets harder easier which is obviously a great benefit. I have noticed she is more submissive, attentive and caring. I trust her not to play with herself at the moment, not least because the punishment would be immense if she couldn’t get hard because she’d been playing with herself. She’s not getting any younger so needs recovery time. Women speak the language of clothes. Everything we wear is a sentence, a paragraph, a chapter - or, sometimes, just an exclamation mark.

Some of our rules include such things as the area of decision making. Once Kathy has asked Gary for his input, and genuinely considers his position she will make a decision that she feels is best for our marriage and family. Once she has made her decision, Gary is expected to not only accept her decision, but to really “embrace” the decision. Once she makes a decision she does not allow complaining, whining or rehashing it. If he violates that rule he is generally harshly spanked with a paddle or cane. another of our rules is that if Gary ever curses at Kathy, speaks disrespectfully to her, walks away in a huff, etc., Kathy generally would wash his mouth out with soap and then rather severely spank him. A third rule is related to finances. Kathy is much better at financial management than Gary. She gives him a small allowance each week, and if he runs out of money he is to come to her and ask for additional funds. If he ever buys something outside of his allowance by using a credit or debit card without first getting her prior approval, he is generally spanked quite severely. Another rule is in the area of housework. Gary is responsible for most of the household chores, including laundry, dusting, vacuuming, washing the floors, etc. If he does not complete his chores on time or in the manner Kathy expects she will typically ask him for an explanation and then dole out punishment if necessary. All of our rules were developed together and we both agreed on the consequences if the rule is broken.

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i am not allowed to have what my wife calls a “female ejaculation” unless her permission is given. It is done under her very strict supervision or by her manually. When she performs a manual female ejaculation on me she wears ribbed rubber dishwashing gloves that are pink in color. i am placed in one of several positions which are:

We think one misconception people might have about a FLR is that it is some weird, kinky whips and chains relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Another misconception is that some people may feel the man in a FLR is somehow ‘weak”, or a pushover. Again, nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Gary is a very masculine, strong and assertive man. We feel it takes exceptional strength for a man in or society to take the subservient role in his marriage to a strong woman whom he respects. We both have the utmost respect for each other, and for the roles we have accepted to make sure our marriage flourishes. Gary is very dedicated to making Kathy’s life as the dominant partner as stress free and happy as possible. He gets much satisfaction from seeing kathy happy, and enjoys “serving” her to assure her happiness. Likewise, kathy is 100% committed to meeting gary’s needs as a dedicated and loving submissive husband. S&M is about inflicting and taking pain for pleasure, whereas D/s is about power exchanges that don’t necessarily have to be physical. Some Doms might enjoy elements of S&M and like to inflict pain on a willing sub partner, but others might not.

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Don’t be nervous or insecure; be proud of your kinks and enjoy yourself. This is important both inside and outside of the bedroom. If you’ve decided to broach the topic of dominant sex with someone, don’t mumble something awkwardly under your breath, take a leaf out of Mr. Grey’s book, and openly declare ‘I’m a Dominant.’ I was spent. my wife looked down at me, after lifting her feet off my face. "You are so pathetic." She gave the command "stop obey". my body was now my own again. I was so ashamed I did all that not only in front of my wife but also my sister in law. My wife glared at me; "Cheat on me or embarrass me again at movie theaters and this will only be the beginning. Do you understand?" I slowly got to my feet in total humiliation, I sheepishly said; "yes" then I walked up to my room in shame. The following weekend one of my wife's sisters flew in from New York to spend some time with her niece and sister. She was a psychologist employed by the state for some sort of trial study that from my understanding had something to do with behavior modification for criminals who either were violent or committed to prison for sex oriented crimes. Love your post Lady Alexa! Similar to you, my wife denies me orgasm via the honor system and not with a cage. She has always been very random of when she would allow me an orgasm, not allowing me to know until the last second, when I am on edge and begging, as to whether or not I can cum. This has been an exciting and torturous mind game for me. Although random, the average time between orgasms has lengthened over the years. We are at the point where I typically go 3+ months without an orgasm. I think nowadays she rarely even thinks about orgasms for me and she may be heading down the same path as you, with not ever allowing one. There’s usually a dominant person in most relationships — even vanilla ones. For example, it’s common for one person to take more responsibility for finances or to be more socially outgoing. The difference is in D/s relationships; those roles tend to be much more pronounced and explicit.