HotWife Fantasies: A Collection Of Hotwife Stories (A Hot Wife Anthology)

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I am surprised at the opinions given so far. Are you all so surprised that this goes on? I am aware of several such arrangements in my locality because of my line of work...

Sounds like the reason that this time you can't just let it drop is because the jerk HASN'T been letting it drop: I would take the one shot at this being a bigger issue because it does seem to be the kind of "dramatic change in behavior"* that is a red flag for medical issues - endocrinological problem, post-concussion syndrome, brain (or other) tumor, serious untreated infection. Or mental illness affecting impulse control. Did anything else change around the time this started? Other obsessions, or sudden loss of interest in things he'd previously been enthusiastic about? Did anything happen - car accident, fall, serious illness?Basically it was something like this that ended my 2nd marriage, except he wanted me to do it with another woman. Not my thing, which I made it very clear. It is easy to view the OnlyFans platform as a playground for the young and single – a place for barely legal teenagers and hot girls to play out their wildest fantasies, stake their claim to internet fame and earn a little money in the process. That is a common simplification and misconception about the OnlyFans platform and how it works, but it is also far from the truth. Your husband is pretty mixed up here. There's also the chance he's just oblivious- you sound like a fairly calm and rational person and a lot of times people don't "get it" when you are the type to always keep your cool. Maybe "losing it" in front of him will make the NO sink in. It's not about sex, it's about power. I'm guessing that perhaps your husband might have other issues, because most guys would be able to tell the difference between fantasy and reality when their wife says "no."

Since this time, both men have been invited to our home any number of times. I am always happy to be my husband’s gift and feel their grateful love for me. One very memorable night, my husband insisted the pair sleep instead in our bed with me, while my husband slept in the guest room. This had not happened since my year as an exchange student. He was right… I had been enjoying myself and I had enough drinks in me to relax… and for a few moments there I had forgotten about him being in the audience and had just relaxed and gone with the flow. Rich, the guy I was dancing with, was an attractive man about 6 ft tall, strong and very muscular. He had curly hair and a very disarming manner. I was attracted, but the thought of going to bed with him hadn't even entered into my mind. Unlike before, however, now I know all these things are possible. I still get nervous on occasion, but mostly I know it’s just a matter of time before we get to try all these things out. I’m no longer concerned or insecure, as this is easily the best thing I’ve ever done in my (sexual) life. This doesn’t have anything to do with how much you love your partner or how devoted to them you are. Kinks are kinks regardless of your romantic feelings, and sometimes you just want to discuss them with your significant other in hopes of them helping you bring those kinks to life.The fact that there are so many MILFs on the OnlyFans platform should tell you something very important – namely that there was obviously a guy involved in the creation of that MILF status. Not only are many of those older (and younger) hot women partnered but they are often happily married as well. Some are monogamous exhibitionists who love to share the goings on in their bedroom with their avid fans. What are your husband's reasons for refusing (a huge red flag that pretty much shouts I Don't Want to Face This Super-Scary Thing No Matter What Because I Will *Die* if I Do) therapy? By which I mean, what does he say? Does refuse to talk about why he refuses? I told him that the bedroom was a lot more comfortable… he agreed and we got up and went into the bedroom. When we got there he almost immediately took off his pants! I said, Oops! I'm sorry, I not ready to get naked yet… just thought this would be more comfortable.

He grinned and said, "No hair on it." my wife just laughed and told him he wasn't supposed to be peeking. This is about fear, full stop. Everything else that's going on here is stemming from your husband's fear of being cheated on and what being cheated on symbolizes about his qualities and selfworth. You should not treat this as a simple fetish (though it certainly is that)-- this is a psychological manifestation of a serious problem that your husband has regarding trust and being valued in your relationship. That you have not expressed any familiarity or interest in other kinks (in this post, at least) but your husband still brought this up as a possibility suggests that this issue is particularly serious for him. That’s when we started easing into the whole thing. We went online in search of wife-sharing guides and instructions on how to do this properly, and we started preparing. Lots of the best advice was found on these hotwife Reddits. I was so incredibly happy. Wife-Sharing Simulations It’s not easy when you essentially want to have sex with someone else but still remain in your long-term loving relationship. Most people won’t understand that it’s not about cheating. It’s not about your partner not being enough.

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I don't think the specifics (much less the morality) of your husband's fascination matters very much. Our fantasies are our fantasies, and they're not to be judged. HOWEVER: you're not his sex robot. Your relationship is supposed to be deeper. If getting off is an obsession, then love isn't enough. And if love isn't enough, then love isn't there. Love is ALWAYS enough if it's really there. I'm afraid that's the underlying problem. If, in his mind, you having sex with someone else equals both the end of the marriage and the only way to make him happy - you can't win! He really needs to talk these conflicting desires out with a professional, and perhaps you should give him the time and space to do that, on his own, if he wants to. If he doesn't want to, then give him all the time he could possibly want to fester with his ridiculous no-win fantasies. I was apprehensive about this at first, but he nudged me into speaking to the men who would message us. I didn’t know what to expect, I was still worried I would come off ass too clumsy or shy or just plain weird. That still gives him an opening to try to convince you that it's not disrespectful because it's empowering to you, and that in fact he thinks you're more than adequate, which is why he wants to see you do sexy things, and it would strengthen your marriage because blah blah blah. Are you sure that you wouldn't get mad?" I took another sip of the drink he had made, as it seemed like a good thing to do to make the answer seem casual.

If he won't go to counselling, I hope you are going (or will go) by yourself. There you should find some tools for improving your communication with him (not that you haven't been clear enough as it is, but he seems hard-headed and determined despite this).

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And just a thought: what about role-playing the scenario somehow? And/or talking dirty stories along the lines of what seems to be his kink? I don't know if you can or want to do this (after all, his attitude toward you w/re this issue has tainted the topic), but maybe there is some means by which to find a way for him to get a little of what he is after without you having to compromise yourself. The start of our relationship wasn’t anything special. We met, fell in love, and eventually got married. I’ve been with my husband for over 10 years now, and we are more than happy. He is my lover and my best friend, and I couldn’t ask for a better life companion. But there was also a different side to all this. While my husband was incredibly supportive and encouraging and our sex life only improved throughout all of this, I still had my doubts and my insecurities.