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If you let yourself stay in that zone of utter upset (fight or flight), you aren’t doing yourself or your relationship any favors. After pacing the kitchen for a few minutes trying to gather my thoughts i looked in the sink and immediately knew what i had to do. My eyes caught my handy dish glove and it was obvious what task had to be completed. After Arthur passed away Andy decided that he was going to keep the old house instead of selling it and was in the process of moving in. With everything from his apartment combined with everything that was already in the house Andy had to sort through it all and decide want he wanted to keep and what he was willing to part with. Apparently Arthur hadn't gotten rid of anything over the years. The house was full of antiques and he had even kept all of the clothes and whatnot from Andy's mom. Here's my problem, I still think about it. Now it's not as much as when it first happened, but it's at least once a day. It's not just the cheating, my imagination goes crazy and I start on what they physically did. I wonder if when we are having sex, they were doing it the same way or did she do things that she wouldn't do with me. The worst part is that sometimes I get turned on thinking about it. No, revise that. Do this breathing exercise: take in 5 slow deep breaths, and make sure you exhale even more slowly. Neuroscience has shown that breathing like that will immediately calm down the anxiety that is pulsing through your body. Here’s what not to do if your wife cheated with another woman: 1. Don’t start calling all of your friends and telling them that your wife’s a lesbian
My wife and I live in a quiet neighborhood in the suburbs. It was one of those small neighborhoods where everyone knew each other. We lived across the street from a nice old man named Arthur who had recently passed away leaving the house to his son Andy. Shirley and I had met Andy a couple of years ago when we moved into the neighborhood ourselves. He had been renting an apartment nearby and we would see Andy every now and then when he came around to visit his dad. Your wife’s apparent attraction to women has nothing to do with you and your masculinity. Period. Here’s what to do if your wife cheated with another woman: 1. Get calmEven if the quality of your marriage had gone down the tubes recently, your wife didn’t have to go and cheat on you with another woman! She could have let you know that she was on the brink first. 3. Talk to your wife I was very excited for the next weekend. I knew that it was going to go down. The tension had been mounting. Lexy and I were hardly talking. And from the transcripts I was getting from the bug in her purse, things were heating up rapidly. She had told Ben that we had “broken up,” but that she was still staying there as a roommate and it was entirely amicable. Ben was very supportive. “I don’t want to push you into anything,” he said. “But I would love it if you would come over to my apartment this Friday. I will make you my salmon. No pressure. Just hang out.” Have this conversation sitting together face to face. Start out by telling her that you know that she cheated on you with another woman. And let her know that you want to understand more about what she’s going through.
You can ask her what she’s learned about herself? What it all this means for your future as a couple? If she’s willing to go to couples counseling with you?You need to protect your marriage by keeping this between the two of you. 4. If you have kids, don’t go shake up their world with this information Wow am I glad that I installed that shower cam. I was watching everything play out in real time on Friday night. I couldn’t see anything during dinner, because I had forgotten to install cams in the kitchen and the little dining area. But I could hear. They were getting a little tipsy and obviously kissing a lot. Finally after dinner then landed on the couch and I observed from above as they started making out. I could hear very clearly now — the mic was the lastest directional tech, really nice. Who do you think they’ll side with anyway? 3. Make sure you don’t tattle on her to either of your families
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