Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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Without confidence and a powerful mindset, women will keep choosing the wrong guys. Without knowing how men think and what they really want, many women will end up alone and with broken hearts. Lambert says you must use dates to understand and vet him. Dig up dirt, and tease out his needs and objectives. The majority of grown ass women are studious and responsible. I’ve given advice to countless women over the years, psychologists, engineers, actresses, small and large business owners. Do you know what I tell them when they give me lame personality traits like, “Well, I’m loyal and honest,” and then tout their yearly income as if that’s more important than their personality? Congratulations for doing what you’re supposed to do in life…but where is the charisma, the fire, the wit, the aggression, and the personality of a powerful woman to go along with those degrees or job titles? Men don’t want these ladies, no matter what they bring to the table, and they don’t understand why. Typicals cling on to that first few weeks treatment as proof that a man had real interest, but real interest doesn’t peak. If a man sees you as different, as special, then interest will only rise. It levels off with the average woman, because despite her achievements or looks, she comes off as unique as seeing snow in Colorado. In the video she posted, KC Davis speaks about a professor from college who explained a theory about how patriarchal masculinity socializes men and why “shame, violence and disgust are so intricately linked”. The concept that being a man is defined by not being a woman is a result of patriarchal oppression and a long history of feminine attributes being seen as undervalued, and being masculine considered as powerful. It’s crazy, the book talks about women should be empowered, so not really understanding what makes a women so “typical” to be proud of what she has been through or what she has over come to get to where she is at. I guess what he saying is what a woman has been through to get to where she is shouldn’t define her but he makes it seem like it isn’t a big deal. No one knows a persons journey until one shares it & it could be extraordinary.

Your vagina is not dipped in gold that men will scramble for it; otherwise your vagina is not different from the other 30 vaginas the man you want has sampled, and he will continue to sample. A man is only as faithful as his options. What that means is that a man with few women who find him attractive is no different from a man who’s a famous athlete that thousands of women find attractive, in terms of his lust for something new. Mr. No Options wants to experience the rush of different women, but he behaves himself because there are no serious takers. Money can buy sex, and some men go that route, but for a man who isn’t willing to pay a prostitute and doesn’t have women threatening to throw it at him for free, he can’t act out on that thrill seeking. That fire still burns inside of him, but he is able to manage it better than the athlete, the celebrity, or regular Joe who women find to be “dream guy” attractive. For the record, this isn’t something that a man can’t control, chasing pussy isn’t like breathing air, any man can choose not to chase women. If one tells you it’s uncontrollable, he’s full of shit. I point this out not to make you see men as horny cavemen, but so you can stop lying to yourself about casting some kind of love spell because you had sex with a man. I want you to understand that all men have a roaring fire that they walk around engulfed in, and a smart woman can use that to her benefit (In a non Ho Tactics way) when gaining power over men. We’ll dive into this technique later on in the book, after you Spartan Up. So, this book is for those women who don’t have much experience with men and also for those who keep ending up with a broken heart for investing too much and too early in the wrong guy. Even if we think we are special, so do others, but that does not mean we respect ourselves. Quite often women are lonely, and that leads to fear, and fear leads to desperation. Lambert confronts this behaviour and tells us to Spartan up, and vet these men until we are certain that they are boyfriend (and husband) material.off I couldn't even get past the 3rd chapter. 😔 I'll admit, there were some eye-opening a-ha moments for me when it comes to learning more about how men think, and I'm sure the idea of an unexpected, deep question to blindside him and then make him feel safe to be himself is genius. Drop Hints of Sensuality As a person who was raised in a conservative Caribbean family, I haven't dated and most of the thoughts I have about finding a mate comes from my parents. Through reading this book, most of what my parents have advised me to do (i.e. taking time to observe the potential beau's character and personality, abstaining from physical affection until you're sure that the potential beau is someone you'd want to be exclusive with) was validated. In contrast to my parents, the author definitely delivered these messages in a more contemporary and witty fashion with 90s/00s pop references. But similar to what I suggest in the 7 biggest mistakes women make, you should thank him and reward him with something physical (a hug). You Must Vet Him Indirectly

Only a couple of things I disagree with -calling for hours and forcing him to invest loads- prevent this book from being a 5 stars resource. It starts with you: you have your own life, you don’t settle, and you demand respect and investment reading Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer But what does it mean to be a “man” in today’s society? Terry Real, a renowned couple’s therapist, lecturer and bestselling author told Forbes, that “we all live under patriarchy, which is a rigid dichotomy of gender roles.” It tells us that men are supposed to be strong, independent, unemotional, logical and confident. Whereas women are assumed to be expressive, nurturing, weak and dependent. “Traditional gender roles don’t make anybody happy and they don’t make for intimacy,” he said. KC Davis gives her take on “how to teach boys to be men” @domesticblistersReply to @absurdistsisyphus why is learning to being good/worthwhile connected to our gender performance anyways? #masculinity #feminism #patriarchy ♬ original sound – Kc DavisMen Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer doc Women tend to seek relationship advice more than men do. And they still get confused and don’t know what to do in some situations. Many inexperienced women will do everything to keep their men interested in them. But why? Because women think they must fight at all costs for the attention, love, and affection of a man. However, many of them will fight for the men who don’t even care about them. wrote this book really doesn't like women AT ALL. Like, at ALL. I got STRONG misogynoir vibes from him, which is a huge turnoff for me.

There may have been some truth to men’s behavior but over all this book is written with women with extremely poor self esteem in mind & will probably make one feel even worse. We can't afford to show weakness around you. We never could. Before, we couldn't because we faced ridicule from other men. Now we face ridicule from women. Men who show women respect are manipulated and exploited, when they're not being ignored or denigrated by them. Some women take pleasure in destroying men they perceive as weak. Since those women don't wear a sign, we have to assume you are all up to that. The second thing is that long before I really liked boys, like when I was 16 and 17 but really liked impressing my friends more, it wasn't clothes with me, it was cars. I would only go out with guys with sports cars, preferably classic ones. No need to say I was shallow. I know it. Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer pdfYou must be indirect and simply listen without giving solutions instead. Then thank him for opening up. Boyfriend Manipulations

The book is repetitive and talks about the same thing over and over it so many different ways. It honestly seems like the author may have poor self esteem and has dealt with rejection one too many times then he felt like he should have. The girl who is cool with Netflix & Chill on the first date. The girl who claims that she waits until she’s involved with a man for sex, but sleeps with him as soon as he tries. The girl who gets open off of money after saying she doesn’t care about materialistic things. Those women are like the other 30+ he’s played that game with over the past few years. He put you to the test to see if you would let him get away with murder, and you did. You didn’t know it was a test; you were being nice by not making him take you on a real date. You were showing him that the sexual chemistry was real, by sleeping with him. You do like the idea of a man with money, you only pretended not to so he wouldn’t think you were a Ho. Saying that you are different, does not show that you are different. To show is to know, and your actions prove that you bow down to him like every other girl. Sure, he may keep going with the flow and pretend that he loves you. But men don’t love women like you. Game Changers get the world dropped at their feet for fear another man will handcuff her before he gets a chance. If you find yourself waiting under the pretense of “we’re taking it slow,” understand that he’s full of shit and you’ve already been assigned to the placeholder box.The goal is to make him feel like you two are in a relationship so he starts falling in love with that idea. End of The Date You are not your vagina, don't stoop too low for jerks; flip it horizontal and the author tells them that men don't value your vagina, bring something else on the table otherwise your vagina loses flavour just after the first time you have sex. The author recommends you sometimes disappear for a day to make him realize how much he misses you.