Dear Self

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In life, you only receive what you give. I want to pour all my love, generosity, and compassion on all living things on this important day. I’m happy where I’m at in life right now, and I believe that it’ll only get better. Happy birthday to me! As I began to love myself, I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know this is ‘authenticity.'”– Charlie Chaplin Your greatest journey in life isn’t about finding yourself but creating yourself.”– George Bernard Shaw My mother told me to be a lady. And for her, that meant be your own person, be independent.”– Ruth Ginsburg Future self letters are also about capturing special moments or pivotal experiences, so you won’t forget these in the future. Getting the job of your dreams only to quit it a day later because you realize other things matter more may be an example of a “future self letter moment.”

This is what I seldom tell you but now this is something that I will start telling you more often. This is my letter to you. Dear Self – I love you – A letter to self. Everything hurts except loving yourself. The best thing you can be is by being a friend to yourself. Happy birthday to myself!” I have to talk to you about Ben and our relationship. Lately, Ben has been very clingy and needy, and I feel stifled. While I spoke to him about his behavior, he showed little interest in listening or changing. I feel lost, but I know you get me. I’ve spent so many years that gave me happiness and joy in abundance. I wish the same in the coming years. Happy birthday to me! Dear self, it’s okay if you haven’t figured it out yet. The pieces will fall in place. You have to stop comparing yourself to others. You have to only focus on being a better you because you are the only you the world has got.

Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.”– Anna Taylor

The love you give to yourself is the most important. It’s not selfish, it’s self-care. When you take care of your needs first and foremost, it allows you to be more present in the lives of those around you.”– Oprah WinfreyHappy Birthday to me. This is my year; this new year of my life will grant me happiness and health and prosperity. Forgive yourself. Love yourself. It’s okay if you have not become what you wanted to be in life, you have become way much better than you ever desired. It’s okay if you are not doing what you actually wanted to do in life, you are doing way much better than what you have ever imagined. It’s okay if you have not got in life what you actually wanted for yourself but He is already having a master plan for you. It’s okay if you still don’t know what you actually want from life but life knows what it has in store for you. It will surprise you with all the gifts it has for you. I must say I've been struggling to process why things have been as hard as they have. Why sometimes the darkness seems engulfing. I see glimpses of the light and I try to hold on to those moments for dear life. I hope when you read this that you are in a better space, that things are finally looking up and going in your favor. Things don’t turn out the way we have always wanted them to but it doesn’t mean that we stop living those things that we already have in life in the desire of something that we crave for. It is life and this is what we can expect from it – irregularity, uncertainty and inevitability.