Mothers and Daughters Spanked 3: John regularly spanks Mary, her daughter and her mother

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Let me set the scene for this one just a bit. Its SUPER crowed. Kids everywhere. Moms everywhere. Shoes everywhere.

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It seemed like such a good idea at the time. It was a lazy afternoon and my daughter and I were looking to escape from the house for bit. Calmly I say. “I know you really want those shoes, but there is no way we can buy them. The heel is much too high and you won’t be able to walk in them.”Onward to store #2. Again, not one single pair of fancy shoes. How can this be?! Isn’t it the holiday season? But, there were those damn slippers again. You can only imagine how that one played out. Even louder stomping accompanied this time by crossed arms and head bobbing. My childhood was not all dark and stormy. My parents gave me so many opportunities to learn and flourish. I always had food and a roof above my head. However, enduring violence from my father was a normalized and significant part of my childhood. Keeping one ear toward the bedroom door in the middle of the night, whenever I would hear my parents argue was normal — because I had to be ready to jump out and protect mom, just in case father started hitting her. Having an angry father had to be accepted as normal. Getting beaten with a 2 x 4 naked was normal, because it was for my own good.

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Yet none of this should be normal. I should have been protected. I have no intention of demonizing my father, or painting Korean parents as anachronistic folks, who use corporal punishment all the time. Actually, there has been more awareness raised in the last decade, and new parents are using less and less spanking. But one thing is clear. One day, when I have a child, he or she will never have to endure any form of violence. Corporal punishment will simply not be an option in my family. Mind you the heel on this shoe is not your typical 6 year old Mary Jane heel. It’s a good inch and a half and it’s narrow. I’m looking at this shoe thinking, “What was the person smoking when they decided to make this and put it in the kid section?” But nope, apparently I’m a glutton for punishment and proceeded to store #3. For sure this time they would have what I need. Editors’ Note: The introduction to the series on #everydaysexualviolence is here. It contains a detailed trigger warning.)Now one might ask, “why didn’t I think to call child protective service or reach out for help?” I didn’t because I grew up with the notion that this was “normal.” This was a “normal” loving father using “normal” corporal punishment to bring me up as a “normal,” polite, law-abiding person. I couldn’t dare think about reporting my own father to the police. That would be the utmost disgrace that I would bring upon the family. I did not want to cause more misery for my mother. So yes, from the age of 7 to 15, I took my father’s ‘no-pants spanking’ as a normal rite of passage. I knew my friends were getting spanked by their parents too, and I assumed they were going through punishments just as painful and mortifying. During the ages 13-15, when we moved to the United States, the hitting became harsher, more frequent, and angrier. Around this time, my mother’s pleads became more and more desperate. I should explain about my mother. She too was a victim of my father’s temper and beatings from now and then, so all she could do in these incidents were to stand by and beg my father to take it easy. I do not blame her. She did her best. She was a petrified victim of domestic abuse and it had become all too normalized. Her sisters, her mother, everyone told her something along the lines of, “That’s what husbands do from time to time. Everyone’s husband has his demons. You have to endure it and calm him down, to keep your family intact. Endure it for your children.” At the Court of Appeal, the duration of Amanda and Scarlet's sentence is reduced significantly ... but they still have to endure the remaining lashes before being released.