The Chump Lady Survival Guide to Infidelity: How to Regain Your Sanity After You've Been Cheated On

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My closest mutual friend with him (now ex-friend) told me I was wrong about something my ex directly said to me.

I often speak at our local detox center, founded by some family friends after their daughter died of a heroin overdose and named after her. Also there was not way I was going to subject any of my son’s upbringing to a whore who had already raised three miscreants on her own. If your Cheater’s not checking the right boxes on this list, then go ahead and rid yourself of the “what-ifs” and “for better and for worse” thoughts and grant yourself permission to protect yourself from abuse. Fast forward to about 8 months ago and my friend (L) of 30 years confided in me that she was having an affair with her local mechanic who is married with 3 children. If you’re the person who had to file for divorce, don’t accept the Bad Guy status your kids and your cheating ex may try to inflict on you.We can rightly imagine the perceived losses that would keep a victim of sexual harassment or assault quiet. And I get the feeling that you ONLY want to be seen to disagree with/disprove me because if you’d wanted any kind of debate on an even keel, you’d have hit ‘reply’ instead of making this separate. I’m pretty sure since I didn’t kill myself and if I hadn’t left, he would have taken it upon himself.

He needed to see me and hear my story and hear that it was possible to endure that kind of pain and not use/drink himself to death. and they’ll post a bunch of shit on their social media using their abuse victim’s suicide to get themselves attention. I have often thought than many cheating spouses should be referred to as “He/She Who Shall Remain Blameless/Shameless”. During that six years, I quit a job that could support me and provided me with insurance because he didn’t want to help out at home and wanted a housewife. Aside from the fact that the majority of cheaters report that they are happily married, it’s not unhappiness that makes people cheat—it’s poor character.

And when she was going through the divorce and later told me that she had to give him half of her retirement, I thought ‘good! You are new around these parts and may not have understood the context of CLs comment about objective truth. I’m disgusted that both of these Cheaters will likely gain financially from the poor Chump’s suicide.