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Date as if you believe, without a shadow of doubt, that you truly deserve a man’s unconditional love. You must believe and therefore act like you are a prize worth pursuing by a high-quality man. Do not try to be “one of the guys”. Learn to make friends with women and resist adopting masculine tendencies. Summary of the 38 dating secrets to get the guy, keep him interested and prevent dead-end relationships
Do not communicate insecurities in such a way that clearly communicates that you don't believe you're worth it. Don't self sabotage. Especially when getting to know him and before he has fully committed to you. Never Chase Men Again” is another dating manual written by a man; refreshingly, this one’s for the benefit of women, particularly those with more conservative values. And if you are a woman who wants “a loving relationship that can lead to marriage”– surely there are worse books than Bryson’s brief but useful 38-rules manual. 12min Tip As I told you already, when you have to chase him, you won’t be happy even if you finally catch him as it will be a relationship in which you are always the one who loves more.
Do not rob a man of the joy on conquest. They want to feel captivated by a woman, and he only gets this by having the challenge of wooing you. Be graceful when communicating with men. The masculine heart is helpless in the presence of a woman whose language is tender and respectful. One of the points I disagree on is that being one of the boys will make you unattractive. Men who are more outdoorsy and adventurous love the women who can keep up with them at least a little on the trails and at the gym, and who won't complain about her hair and nails on camping trips. Some women also naturally have a feminine physique that no clothes can hide. I'm talking long legs, wide hip
You can explore other interests, get to know yourself better, and live your life on your terms. 9. He moves on A woman’s confidence is communicated to a man by what she stands for and what she doesn’t. Being able to confidently socialize with men, having confident body language, and illustrating confidence in your femininity will only go so far if you still allow men to have their way with your emotions, time, affections, body, and anything else for that matter. Never be too accessible. Men will bore of something that is easy to obtain and easy to access. Women should present enough of a challenge. Be willing to show your vulnerable side. Only self-reliant women can make high-quality men crawl with desire. But it is their vulnerability that delivers the final blow. So, when the time is right, bare your soul – and you will melt his heart. Do not tolerate men who want to conceal you from the rest of the world. Look at how eager he is to spend time with you, and to show you off to the world if there's no prospect of intimacy with you.
I know that your reputation is the last thing on your mind when you’re falling hard for a guy but remember that it’s a small world, and rumors spread. I liked the idea you better not move in if you want marriage. Women see it as a step closer, men see it as postponement -and as an easy way out if they don’t fully like it-. Since self-confidence without cleverness can only go so far, the most reliable weapon a woman has when it comes to dealing with men is the strength of her own personal boundaries regardless of the situation. So, maybe your guy doesn’t think that he needs to ‘bring things down to a woman’s level’ but still, I am sure that there’s something equally disturbing about him. Not bad, right? However, ensuring that his pursuit is respectful and not just a game is crucial. How to go from chasing to being chased?
Embrace your inner vixen. That’s right: don’t be a prude. Learn to be confident in your skin. Use your God-given gifts to turn men’s heads – and casually enjoy while they orbit around you. Do not deprive a man of the joy of conquest. Men like to woo women. Don’t rob them of this opportunity by rushing to attain a commitment. Be willing to show your vulnerable side. If a man has shown good intentions, be open to show your vulnerabilities. This will allow an emotionally deep and intimate connection. It helps him feel more connected to you. When a woman is willing to show her emotional wounds and an appropriate time - this allows a man to uphold his manliness. Before a man has judged you as a ‘worthy pursuit’ in his mind, it is wise to show restraint in displaying your infatuation.
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The only two other thing to mention is that (1) the narrative voice is a bit annoying, but I got used to it by the end of the book. And (2) I wouldn't buy any other of Bruce Bryan's books purely because it just seems too much of a money making excersize of mentioning all his other books along the way and of course; those other books are areas that people are interested in that hasn't been covered in this book. Resist his aloofness. Men can use aloofness as a weapon, just like sex. Don’t fall into this trap: as exciting as his emotional distance might be, don’t allow for it to become a training tool. Communicate high value and be the woman men adore Do not speak ill of your exes, especially if you’re just getting to know a guy. No man wants to be in a relationship with someone with baggage. Even more importantly, no man wants to start a relationship with a woman who might have been attracted solely to defective men. Why would they?
Ignoring a man can have various outcomes. It might pique his interest if he’s genuinely interested in you, prompting him to pursue you more actively. However, he may lose interest altogether if he’s not interested or perceives it as a game. Resist the urge to seek constant and excessive approval. Don’t turn your relationship into a chore for him, especially not after he’s committed to you. He might barely listen to you on your dates and is probably always in a hurry to leave. When you stop chasing him, you can easily avoid dates that leave you feeling terrible. 7. You have time for other people
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He will think that you won’t go anywhere, no matter how he acts. Isn’t it true that all of us cherish the things that are harder to get?
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