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Remember: the right guy will see your value. He’ll know your worth from the get-go. You won’t need to convince him! And we touched on briefly above, but to go into a healthy relationship, it should be about giving, equally. This leads me onto my next point… 2) It Makes The Relationship Unbalanced
You see in online dating, the high value men get snapped up so fast and so hard that you’ll be convincing yourself that these types of men basically don’t exist. (They do! And women who use our high value banter are finding this out for themselves every single day. They are calling it a “game changer”!)All that said, I am also very much a traditionalist when it comes to dating. I don’t need to be doggedly pursued, but I do prefer that the man make the first move. I prefer that the man be the initiator of at least the first date. Because I view dating as dance, I prefer the guy take the lead; not all the time, but the majority of the time, especially in the early stages of dating. I’m not afraid to ask a man out, and I’ve been known to do it, but it’s not my preference. Why? Because I’ve never had good results when I’ve been in a dating situation where I was the primary instigator. Usually when I’m the primary instigator, it’s a pretty clear sign that he’s just not that into me. I don’t know about you, but I’ve never known a man who didn’t go after something he REALLY wanted. (Maybe you feel differently, and that’s totally cool!) You’ve got your heart so damn set on him, you can’t even let yourself see the other guys that are out there. Because let’s be fair, if you have to chase (and are the only one chasing!), it’s not going to work. You deserve a lot better than this, and you’ll get it. But if you invest all this time in the wrong person, it’s going to stop you from finding the right one.
Again, what is important is your perceived value, so even when you don’t have that many options, you still need to act as if you did.While you’re spending all that time chasing a woman who has told you “no” probably a hundred times, you miss out on the opportunity to be with other women who like you. There are a few critical situations when it’s time to give up the chase. First, if a woman consistently ignores your advances or pushes you away, it’s probably time to move on. Second, if you’re doing more than your fair share of the work in the relationship, it might be time to let her take the lead for a while. It is only in grieving past traumas, cutting out toxic attachments in your life and seeking secure attachments that you can begin to heal. I would sense that a man is pulling away ( not doing enough texting and calling or taking forever to respond) and It would immediately trigger my anxiety and I would start chasing him.
If you pursue a woman relentlessly and finally get her to date you, do you think you can just fold your arms and do nothing afterward? When you feel the need to do some chasing to keep the relationship going, it is an obvious sign that he is not that interested in you and does not really want you. Leave texting for when he texts you first and don’t go crazy with likes and comments on his social media profiles. Constantly pursuing women can also damage your self-esteem. If you regularly try to get someone’s attention and fail, it will harm how you see yourself.
Why would you ruin your reputation for a guy who clearly isn’t that into you in the first place? Never chase a man, and plenty of guys will chase you. 8. You will waste a lot of time Let’s first talk about what makes a woman chase a man. What makes a woman feel the need to chase a man?
But go for what you want girl! This isn’t about game playing and there’s nothing wrong with putting yourself out there and showing a bit of interest.That is because men will always chase you if they have no doubts about how they feel about you and they are truly into you. We can dwell on the things we despise about each other or we can seek to inspire the good in others. In reality, relationships aren’t about games and manipulation, they’re about healing;” So don’t let your insecurities make you be the first one to send text messages after the first date or after a break-up. Otherwise, it can come off as creepy or even stalking behavior. When done right, chasing a woman can be an exciting and enjoyable experience for both parties involved. What makes a woman chase a man? He might chase you like meat, but how can any man truly engage with a passive woman? No one falls in love through being passive
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